It is likely that your child does not have the skills to do what you are asking them to do. There is a different approach to parenting that is spearheaded by a man name Dr. Ross Green. He wrote a booked called, The Explosive Child. It outlines a new way to parent that might be helpful for you and your behaviorally challenging child. He outlines a lot of his work on his website called "
Lives In the Balance". Check out this website for more information to get started on helping you and your child!